Balance, and it’s more hip progeny “self-care” is a popular
topic today. The idea started out innocently enough, and was peddled in the 90’s as
work/life balance.
Looks like that Hindu goddess, eh? |
The work part is obviously what pays your bills. The other
part of the equation is supposed to include sleep, eating, hobbies, laundry,
home and car maintenance, raising children, doctor’s appointments, and grocery
shopping. We may have time for some fun, and some of us include an hour or two
per week for church.
Actually, it sounds a little unfair when I put it in those terms.
One the one hand, we have work. It can be enjoyable, but
being compulsory kind of sucks any joy out of our daily grind. And frankly, after
our work is done, we have to do everything else, which also feels like work. If
we’re fortunate, and don’t happen to live in a pressure-cooker environment of
outrageous real-estate markets and intensely competitive job markets, there’s a
little time left in our schedule for fun and relaxation.
No wonder we don’t want to give up a precious Saturday or
Sunday to study scripture or spread the gospel to others. No wonder we immerse
ourselves into food, entertainment, alcohol, sex, social media, or drugs –
desperately trying to maximize at least physical gratification in a
minimal amount of time.
Is there an alternative? Are work and life what we really
need to balance? I don’t think so, and here’s why: Both work and life are
really all about us satisfying ourselves. Sure, we may tell ourselves that our job is
about providing for others, but that isn’t 100% truth, is it? If it were, there
would be no such thing as a workaholic, or career climber.
Maybe the balance we really need to consider is God/Me.
I heard a sermon many years ago, as a new believer, about
the line between God’s decisions for our lives, and the decisions we make
for ourselves. I wanted a really clear list of things I should ask God to
decide in my life, versus questions I should answer for myself. For example: DO
ask God about a new job opportunity, but DON’T ask him if I should buy a pair
of new shoes. The demarcation never really came, which frustrated me
tremendously. It’s been nearly 20 years since that message, and I have
wrestled with understanding the limit of my autonomy daily. DAILY.
Should I just sit around waiting for God to provide everything? How
much of this life is up to me, and how much of it do I turn over to God? Am I a
bad person for buying cute shoes, or choosing the names I wanted for my
children? Should I be sitting on a mountain, singing to God all day long, and
just trust that He’ll send angels with food and water, while keeping me safe
from wild animals and inclement weather?
Where does my will end and God’s will begin in this life I’ve
been given? Please don’t hit me with a sanctimonious admonition like ‘everything
in your life should be about God.’ I doubt you consult Him regarding the flavor
of coffee creamer you should purchase.
Further, if God intended for us to just sit still and worship
Him every moment of every day, we wouldn’t need bodies or physical sustenance, right?
We’re supposed to be doing something with our lives; the time given here should be
wasted neither by frivolous pursuits, nor idleness. I looked to the Bible for an answer.
In trying to figure out the scriptural way to find balance
between God and me, if that’s even the right way to express the tension, I
pondered some of the Bible “greats” like David, Moses, Abraham, and Jacob. When
in doubt, check out how those guys did things. After a stinging slap of humility across
the face, I realized that If I was going to find someone to pattern my life
after, I should choose a lesser-known Bible figure. Anna the Prophetess “came”
to mind. You and I both know who put that notion in my head, don't we? Anna was the older woman who was in the temple when Joseph and Mary
brought in baby Jesus.
Luke 2:36-38
36 And there was a prophetess, Anna, the daughter of Phanuel,
of the tribe of Asher; she was of a great age, having lived with her husband
seven years from her virginity, 37 and as a widow until she was eighty-four.
She did not depart from the temple, worshiping with fasting and prayer night
and day. 38 And coming up at that very moment she gave thanks to God, and spoke
of him to all who were looking for the redemption of Jerusalem.
Three verses sum up all we know about her; there isn’t
much detail about her life. Was she diligent about sweeping temple floors? Did
she have a particular talent for baking bread? Did she always make a little
extra soup to give to the neighborhood beggar? Scripture is silent about the
mundane details of her life.
But, Oh! The substance in those few verses!
Anna was a young widow starting in her seventh year of
marriage. Instead of finding a new hubby in the prime of her youth, she remained
in the temple worshiping God, and faithfully anticipated the coming of the
Messiah with prayer and fasting. She spoke of redemption through Jesus, recognizing
him as the promised Messiah instantly and after she saw him, she continued to proclaim
him as the Messiah to anyone who would listen. Anna was all-in.
Verse Luke 2:37 says Anna was a widow until she was 84.
Until? Did she experience a change in marital status immediately after meeting
the Messiah? Initially the wording seemed strange, but then I realized that she
had met the Messiah, who is also called the Bridegroom. Perhaps that’s why
scripture called her a widow until the age of 84, and not “until her dying day.”
Come to think of it, there’s no mention of her death at all in scripture.
The last couple of years of study has taught me that there’s always a
perfect connection among books, chapters, and verses in God’s word. So, I thought
it might be interesting to look at Psalm 84 to see if God’s word showed a
connection to the years of Anna’s widowhood. Look at verse four, in bold type
below.
Psalm 84
1
To the choirmaster: according to The Gittith. A Psalm of the Sons of Korah. How
lovely is thy dwelling place, O LORD of hosts!
2 My soul longs, yea, faints for the courts of the LORD; my
heart and flesh sing for joy to the living God.
3 Even the sparrow finds a home, and the swallow a nest for
herself, where she may lay her young, at thy altars, O LORD of hosts, my King
and my God.
4 Blessed are those who dwell in thy house, ever singing thy
praise! Selah
5 Blessed are the men whose strength is in thee, in whose
heart are the highways to Zion.
6 As they go through the valley of Baca they make it a place
of springs; the early rain also covers it with pools.
7 They go from strength to strength; the God of gods will be
seen in Zion.
8 O LORD God of hosts, hear my prayer; give ear, O God of
Jacob! Selah
9 Behold our shield, O God; look upon the face of thine
anointed!
10 For a day in thy courts is better than a thousand
elsewhere. I would rather be a doorkeeper in the house of my God than dwell in
the tents of wickedness.
11 For the LORD God is a sun and shield; he bestows favor
and honor. No good thing does the LORD withhold from those who walk uprightly.
12 O LORD of hosts, blessed is the man who trusts in thee!
That’s an apropos Old Testament addition to the New
Testament example of Anna the Prophetess!
How do we apply the elegant simplicity of Anna's life to
our own lives, finding the balance between God and us in life? Do we hang
out in a church or synagogue all day? Of course not. I mean, if you’re a person
who happens to work in a temple day and night, fine. But not all of us have
that kind of job. Let’s look at the original Greek for further clues.
The phrase “did not depart from the temple” is aphistemi
hieron. Aphistemi means to actively remove, withdraw from, fall away from, or
lose faith in. Hieron is a general word to describe a sacred place, and doesn’t
specifically refer to a building or sanctuary. The phrase clearly doesn’t refer
to physically sitting in the temple. I think it’s a spiritual example.
- Anna devoted time to a relationship with God through prayer and fasting.
- Anna shared the Gospel with others.
- Anna remained in a sacred place, focused on salvation through the Messiah.
Anna was doing exactly what we’re supposed to be doing with
our lives. And there’s another example in the book of Luke where people remain in the temple. Again, Jesus had just been definitely revealed as the
promised Messiah, but this time it was to the Apostles after his resurrection.
Luke 24:48-53
48 You are witnesses of these things. 49 And behold, I send
the promise of my Father upon you; but stay in the city, until you are clothed
with power from on high." 50 Then he led them out as far as Bethany, and
lifting up his hands he blessed them. 51 While he blessed them, he parted from
them, and was carried up into heaven. 52 And they returned to Jerusalem with
great joy, 53 and were continually in the temple blessing God.
Again, the
passage doesn’t mean they were physically sitting in the temple day and night.
Hieros (similar to hieron) is the Greek word used in this passage, and it
refers to being sacred, or consecrated to God. The apostles traveled, had jobs,
and went about their business, but they remained consecrated and focused on
God, and on telling others about redemption through Jesus Christ. That’s the balance
of God/Us in our lives, as it should be taught. They lived lives that were
sacred, even while performing more mundane tasks in life like making tents, or
catching fish.
The material
details of our lives are not nearly as significant as our commitment to remaining
in the temple (metaphorically). And while we’re there, we should be faithfully
watching for, and having faith in, our Redemption, while sharing the Gospel
with others. The rest is noise.
We should repeat
that to ourselves as often as possible, lest we get so caught-up in the things
of this world, that we are pulled out of the temple without even realizing it’s
happened.
Eyes up!
Beautifully transparent as always! I love how in these end times, God is “opening up the book”(Daniel 12:4) and giving amazing enlightenment to scripture long since deemed as “fully sorted” doctrinally. Thanks for this gem!
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